Hmmm … Women … Men … Women … ??? written by Big Virge 10/8/12

Okay, having posted Rebel Glam’s video blog on the rise of prostitution in Bajan women ……

MY TURN …. !!!!!

Due to technical difficulties, a video of my own is not currently possible, but hey, I’m a writer first, so, wunnah gonna have to deal with the words …

Reading is needed fa wunnah, microwave, attention span, Mother Fukkas, anyway … chuh … !!!!

Right then … !!! …

Well, having been verbally attacked in recent times over my lack of love fa the idea of having children & comments about foopin’ white gyal, ahead of black gyal, well ……

Fuck y’all …. !!!!!

Black women & the issues of what we’ve been through ….. ahhhhhh diddums …

Black folks are the dominant presence on the planet, yet, we are the most needy, looked down upon, and oppressed, historically & currently …..

Hmmmmmm ….. cut that shit out … !!! … and …. on top of that, how the fuck did we get here … white people alone …. ???

Smell that fukry you’re shoveling black people … PLEASE …. !!!!!

All i’ve heard since being here is,

“Oooohhhh … watch what you say, because Bajans cruel, and they will fuck wid you ….. !!!!!”

Oh really, how so … ??? … by attempting to belittle my vibe & personal ideals, because they don’t fit with theirs … ??? … by sneakily plotting your demise, because my speaking out, affects their ability to live good …???

That sounds like sumthin’ from our distant beginnings, that Africans know of, but, don’t speak of …..

The Traitor in Black Peoples’, psyche, which, may well be the reason, that, to this day, many still have, what some call, “Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome”, or, in other words, a Fuk’d up mentality !!!!!

Ohhhh …. should I not say that here ….. !!!!!

Oops …. looks like i’ve just dropped myself in it then …..

So much talk of loving ourselves, yet, do we … ??? …

…. better still, DO YOU show that type of love to your fellow black brothers & sisters, or, as per this prostitution issue, is there more loyalty to the GREEN, that, defines most peoples’ existence now … huh … ? …

Huh … !???!

Trinkets, black people, trinkets ….

The general complaint from black people seems to be, their lack of money, especially in comparison to their white counterparts ….

So, when black women are selling their punny for next to nothing ….

50 – 70 dollars, (like £20 !!!)

What is it for … ??? …

…. to feed their children … ???

In quite a few cases, it would appear … NOOOTTTTT !!!!!

To pay for an education, that avails, an escape from the mental chains that are evident, in their actions ….. ???

Uhhh Uhhh …..

Ahhhhhh …. it’s for their nails & a nice pair of shoes !!!!!?!!!!!

Let’s also get to this issue of children in black relationships, as a child of a relationship that appeared to be based on true love, errrr …. once again …. Naaahhhh …. !!!!!

When my mother became ill, what did my dad do … ???

RUN …. why … ???

Well, in my view, it’s the same ol’ same, to save face amongst his peers …

A lot of black women seem to have a thing of wanting to do a lot of that chit …. lookin’ good for show, not for they man … !?! … or, because they want to fill THEMSELVES …. with higher levels of self esteem.

Nah …. it seems, that, in too many cases, there is evidence that suggests, that their behavior with their partners/baby fathers betrays a level of …. Terribly LOW self-esteem.

Uplift yourselves Black Women … !!!!!

I am as big an advocate of that, as you’ll find, but, that upliftment is about conducting yourself in a manner befitting of a queen den, not some foul-mouthed, split personality, witch … !!!!!

Stop that pish now ladies … Fa Realllll … !!!!!

Why am I being seen as some kind of black, self-hater … ???

Why … ??? … because I call it as I see it, and, as it invariably is … ???

What kind of stupid shit is this … !?!

Oohhhh …. I must promote something, that, i’ve witnessed crashing, not just in my own family, but, in a multitude of black relationships …. !!!!!

Fellas, you need to stop with that pish too …. !!!!!

Why is it that, most of the men I hear, proclaiming,

“Virge, you seem to have self-hate issues, type shit !!!”, are the ones who are beating black women, leaving them & their children, to do what, fuck white pussy on the sly, in more than a few cases now ….. !!!!!

Huh ….. ???

I know this to be true, cos i’ve seen it with my own father, so, don’t try & tell me that i’m lying.

The shame on his face when I saw the white women he was foopin’ after leaving my sick mother, was, and still is …. PRICELESS !!!!!

Is it me who is lying … ??? … or you, who is lying to yourself !?!

I would readily spend my time with a black woman, who recognizes the need for, honest communication, that does not involve, explosive arguments, fueled by irrational, thoughtless, emotionally driven, angst ….

YES I WOULD … !!!!!

Don’t let my commentary on white girl fool ya … if the fuk’d up Bajans out there, want to claim i’m some kind of sell out for that, what does the selling & purchasing of Black Womens’ ass, make them then …. !?!

Black Kings, Queens & Goddesses people …. ???

REALLY … !???!

Oh … and fa those of you who may feel the need to spread rumours about Virge BULLIN’ cos he single, two things …..

I ain’t the one pon’ beach wid my ass hangin’ out my shorts, selling’ boxy fa the tourists looking fa some black man to foop … !!!

Annnnddd … as i’ve said before, bring your wives & daughters, for a night, as long as they look good … !!! … and see what you’re told by your them, the next day …. !!!!!

So fellas, perhaps you should start CHOOSING and treating, our women better … !!!!! …

… so that they don’t have to go give up der tings to …. ???

Hmmmmm …. Black men only ….. ???

Errrrr ….. don’t think so ….. !?!

Mostly, white guys now right ….. why …… ???

Oh … once again, because they got da GREEN dat all yuh claim to have no love fa …. !????!

Hmmmm ….. sumthin’ don’t quite add up, apart from the sound of ching ching, as mattress springs der doing, dee ting !!!!!

Thus, what I would say to Rebel Glam is this, why do you seem surprised, that this kind of behavior is running, and, on the increase in Bajan women … !!!?!!!

Huh … why … ???

Let me tell all you, this is a rising trait in women everywhere, because women are materially driven now, more than ever in history, in my view !!!!!

White girls just have their game tight, they prostituing dem pussyhole for millions … NOT … 70 f’cking dollars … !!!

Black men gone try to run talk bout ….

“Dem can’t even foop right !!!!”

Wunnah stay der yeah, nuff of dem, der pon’ black wood now …

Nuff of dem … der pon Facebook now …. watching dee nasty videos of batty ridin’ black gyal … !!!

So, as one of the Queens of Comedy, done say, wunnah black girls need to fix up wid dee attitudes & taboos, that you claim you ain’t down wid’, but, do behind closed doors with men who are paying you for dem dutty practices !!!!

The worst part is, from what i’m hearing, that ….

Wunnah women, then go back to your man, wid money in ya purse, and still begging ya man, who don’t know bout’ your whoring ways, fa money !!!!!

Believe it or not, that’s REAL !!!!!

I truly view women, like I view the people of the world, without assessing any race as being less corrupted, or, better than another.

We all have these issues within our cultures, you only have to look at the sex trafficking in Europe, Africa & say Thailand, from Asia, to recognize that these things are global issues.

Nas done tell all you, “The sexiext women are always the nastiest”

…. annnnddd …. as he would seem to have be dealin’wid black gyal mostly, if the vibe is that, Black women are the sexiest queens of this planet, what does that mean bout’ them then fellas … !???!

I am truly saddened that, in this day and age, black men are trying to pull cards like, oh, you don’t love your own, or, you shouldn’t speak negatively about what is in effect, REALITY …..

Is it so scary to face … ??? …

Clearly, it still is, for a lot of black people !!!

Ya know, as I sit here wondering just how serious people will get when they hear this kind of stuff, from a man who has spent most of his life, around white people, it continually reminds me of how quick we have been, and seemingly, still are …. to criticize an individual who speaks on issues that are contentious, and sensitive to black people, without shielding the raw truth of how they feel or see things, it is no wonder to me, that, having come here, the thing I am disliking the most, is the deceipt-filled rhetoric, that I hear coming from my own peoples’ mouths.

Annnd just on that subject of growing up in England, that was not my choice to be born, or more importantly, to be born, THERE, and people need to think about that stuff, when speaking to black folk, born in England, we didn’t choose it, we were born into it, and, many of us aren’t so proud of our Englishness, due to the fact that it’s been the place where, all we were fed, as young people, was, the obvious, black is bad … White is good programming ….

If that’s a problem for all you, then just let man know, and I for one, will vacate your space !!!!!

Anyway, suffice to say, who isn’t a prostitute in todays’ world eh … ??? …

… but, prostituting your body fa fukry, is something Bajan women should be ashamed of in my view, if you’re gonna do it, especially for white guys, wunnah better get pon’ the net, check escort prices across the globe, and value yourselves appropriately !!!

Remember, in the same way that, white girls were, and in many cases, still are … Our Forbidden Fruit ….

A … TIGHT, black ass, bubbies & natural appearance, is worth, Shitloads More, than you getting from dem tharrr white fellas HEAR … !!!!!

It wasn’t that long ago that they were continually forcing themselves on black women … !!!

So …. make dem pay PROPERLY, out dem ill gotten gains, if you gine now … SELL it to dem’ …. !!!!!

Come on girls … WTF … !!!?!!!

I would rather our women didn’t do it at all, but, the reality is that, some are doing it to get by, for food etc, but, dem who doing it fa nails & other cosmetic & material fukry …..

Something is seriously wrong …. !!!!!

As this title suggests, these issues are the issues of both sexes …. and when you think about our ability to find alternative options, and make different choices, the majority of cases have little, if any, defense ….

Think about it ……..

Men … Women … Men & yes … More Women ….

2 Responses to “Hmmm … Women … Men … Women … ??? written by Big Virge 10/8/12”

  1. Selena Glam Says:
    August 10th, 2012 at 8:22 pm

    true, we should not just side with black people because we ourselves are black, we should be honest about what our people are doing.

  2. EmpressZingha Says:
    August 10th, 2012 at 11:42 pm

    People need to let go of fear and stand up for what they believe in! – Speak out on your views! As for the prostitution thing.. I don’t like it and I wish they wouldn’t, but the reality is, it happening!

    At least the girls as V said with the babies home, have a cause.. they trying to make the best of what they know, how they know… De others… they seriously need to check what in their life they truly value.. 10 plastic nails and synthetic hair CANNOT be your self worth!!

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